To accept unwanted loss: the sixth
faith characteristic listed in Alton’s letter serves to starkly contrasts the
difference between faith and fear in the face of unwanted loss. When one faces unwanted loss with fear of the
future, fear of self, and fear of others one does not think rationally and
creatively but seeks to avoid the very reality of loss by its denial. The mind games played while in this state
include self-delusion and self-justification.
On the other hand, facing unwanted loss with faith leads to acceptance
and clarity of thought. Realistic
adjustments are made and reevaluation of the significance of loss is forthcoming
often resulting in a conclusion that the change presented by loss can even have
ultimate positive aspects. Faith to
accept unwanted loss is a coping mechanism that can bring about positive and
solid results that bless oneself and others.
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